tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7018782984608353962.post6501224296516104585..comments2023-10-30T09:56:53.517-04:00Comments on a blog for frances: the name gamefranceshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06516026856838148495noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7018782984608353962.post-88347109357733705862011-11-13T11:02:17.968-05:002011-11-13T11:02:17.968-05:00Glad you found what worked for you!! I'm like ...Glad you found what worked for you!! I'm like Sarah. Grew up with no middle name so I could move my maiden name over. I like it and it's worked for me...until the NV DMV informed me 8 1/2 years and billions of documents later that I couldn't do that and that was NOT my name. So- my current ID does not have my maiden name which ticks me off- because despite what they say I pick my name- not tham. I'm going to try to get a recent passport with all 3 names and then the NV DMV can stuff it.CLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17650962687572384256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7018782984608353962.post-84859762049022387262011-11-10T16:41:21.804-05:002011-11-10T16:41:21.804-05:00My thoughts on this have changed as I've aged ...My thoughts on this have changed as I've aged and accomplished more. If/when I get married, I'm keeping my name. And I think it's annoying that the church just changes it automatically for you.Naomihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07428921288377508589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7018782984608353962.post-36160124260789031972011-11-10T14:21:36.647-05:002011-11-10T14:21:36.647-05:00I HATED my maiden name. Middle and last. I got rid...I HATED my maiden name. Middle and last. I got rid of them both. I hardly remember what my name used to be. It is second nature now to be a Young. I also didn't like who I was and thought it would be a nice way to start over. Too bad, it really didn't change. I always wondered though what it would be like to be in the church (in the USA) and not take your husband's name. How would that work and how would people react and what would people do? Love you. Sorry we wrote Mr. & Mrs. on the envelope of your gift :)Evan and Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13958143443343524177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7018782984608353962.post-36638679438108169152011-11-10T14:03:12.778-05:002011-11-10T14:03:12.778-05:00(Blog lurker--not stalker--and first time commente...(Blog lurker--not stalker--and first time commenter here)<br /><br />I love this post. I love your reasoning. I will also not be changing my name and for somewhat similar reasons. I've spent my whole life as heidi d., I'll sign my marriage license as heidi d., my fiance fell in love with heidi d. Why change it now?<br /><br />Lots of things in this post...thank you again for sharing!<br /><br />xoxheidikinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00525478381785640543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7018782984608353962.post-77023431010326318432011-11-10T13:47:40.644-05:002011-11-10T13:47:40.644-05:00I admit it was hard to become a Mellor. Not only w...I admit it was hard to become a Mellor. Not only was I Sarah Jones (with no middle name mind you) for 29 years, but people always called me Sarah Jones....first and last...just one of those names I guess, and I liked that. As generic a name as it was. The nice thing was keeping my maiden name as my middle name, so I am still Sarah Jones, just with a little Mellor thrown in. It adds something. But people keep thinking it is hyphenated, which is fine, just gets confusing sometimes when looking me up in various systems. Still much easier than when the pharmacy would look for Sarah Jones and the computer system would actually freeze because there were too many of us in there.sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14773085570899941737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7018782984608353962.post-83501288361305900962011-11-09T22:43:57.345-05:002011-11-09T22:43:57.345-05:00I always expected to take my husband's name, s...I always expected to take my husband's name, so didn't think much about it in advance, but it was weird to wake up one day and be a person with no history. Everything I had accomplished up to then was as Amy Bennett, and Amy Johnson was nobody. (Of course I took care of that as quickly as I could!)Momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7018782984608353962.post-37677878115795906532011-11-09T21:12:54.270-05:002011-11-09T21:12:54.270-05:00Sylvia dated a guy who married the girl he dated a...Sylvia dated a guy who married the girl he dated after he broke up with Syl - and he took his wife's name instead of her taking his. <br /><br />and I thought that was kind of weird. <br /><br />but hey - to each his own right?<br /><br />I've never really thought about the subject...why I changed my name...but now thinking about, my husband and our marriage is a big part of my identity and so I don't really feel less of myself by having taken his name. However I agree with Kate - good for you for thinking it through instead of just doing it to do it.PNRBAChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16343280775231581209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7018782984608353962.post-53560041687219632042011-11-09T19:14:17.632-05:002011-11-09T19:14:17.632-05:00I really miss being a Jones - never having to spel...I really miss being a Jones - never having to spell it was the best! I do like the convenience of one name for our family, especially since Harrison came along. <br /><br />Either way, good for you for making a decision and sticking to it, church records and all.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07349712699592341218noreply@blogger.com